Wednesday, July 22, 2009
finally this little dispute has been all cleared and i thank you for taking time to think the problem through... Its as much my problem as it is yours and i truly believe that this will help prevent alot of future misunderstandings.
In order to prevent such problems from arising again... I promise to keep an appropriate distance from you and when needed i promised to be more civilised and tolerant. Lets just stop agonizing the middle man repeatedly before she goes crazy soon. =)
2:31 AM
Indecisive...
In order to prevent such problems from arising again... I promise to keep an appropriate distance from you and when needed i promised to be more civilised and tolerant. Lets just stop agonizing the middle man repeatedly before she goes crazy soon. =)
2:31 AM
Indecisive...
Thursday, July 02, 2009
well.. there is one thing which i hope to clarify... I m not angry that i was told to go home... I m merely dissapointed because i was told unnecessary stuff such as the wide spread due to my coming in contact...
For example you could simply have told me... " bella do u wan to consider going home cos if u realli have it you might be spreading it to others u know..." rather than " bella do u wan to consider going home? if i get it i will spread it to my brother and the whole SAF will get it. and if u go chinatown with us the people there will also get it u know."
AND... I do not mind u being frank with me. Just that alot of times you provide me with unnecessary information that is hurting. Have you ever considered a person's feelings before you speak? Or more pointedly... Have you ever considered MY feelings before you speak? I know U always consider the feelings of someone else before you speak.. maybe that is why u never quarrel with anione else... But u NEVER did spare ani tots for my feelings... that is why we constantly fight... I can ask myself and i can honestly answer u that eversince the fight last year... I had always considered your feelings before i speak.. HAVE YOU??
Moreover kindly get your facts right... I was in contact with the person for not more than 5 minutes and most importantly... I did not even start developing any symptoms... and so how is it possible for me to spread any of my vile germs? (Any person who is in close contact (approximately 1 metre) with someone who has influenza-like symptoms (fever, sneezing, coughing, running nose, chills, muscle ache etc) is at risk of being exposed to potentially infective respiratory droplets) quoted from HPB...
10:39 PM
Indecisive...
For example you could simply have told me... " bella do u wan to consider going home cos if u realli have it you might be spreading it to others u know..." rather than " bella do u wan to consider going home? if i get it i will spread it to my brother and the whole SAF will get it. and if u go chinatown with us the people there will also get it u know."
AND... I do not mind u being frank with me. Just that alot of times you provide me with unnecessary information that is hurting. Have you ever considered a person's feelings before you speak? Or more pointedly... Have you ever considered MY feelings before you speak? I know U always consider the feelings of someone else before you speak.. maybe that is why u never quarrel with anione else... But u NEVER did spare ani tots for my feelings... that is why we constantly fight... I can ask myself and i can honestly answer u that eversince the fight last year... I had always considered your feelings before i speak.. HAVE YOU??
Moreover kindly get your facts right... I was in contact with the person for not more than 5 minutes and most importantly... I did not even start developing any symptoms... and so how is it possible for me to spread any of my vile germs? (Any person who is in close contact (approximately 1 metre) with someone who has influenza-like symptoms (fever, sneezing, coughing, running nose, chills, muscle ache etc) is at risk of being exposed to potentially infective respiratory droplets) quoted from HPB...
10:39 PM
Indecisive...
Never have i felt this foolish before... Now all the truth are beginning to dawn on me... All the while i had never had ani importance in my so called fragile friendship... starting from the supposedly happy birthdae chalet... I tot i was doing everyone a favour by joining it together with rayna's so that they did not have to make another time out just to spend this birthdae with me. I was wrong... I should not even haf had this "celebratory" event... I'm grateful to those who stayed and for those who could not stay for reasons from one to another.. I understand n i'm sorry i could not have made a better arrangement for you. But for some who lied time after time to consider on whether to stay... I'm sorry to say... Thanks for putting up a great show. i truly believed. All the same i would like to thank all for making this lovely and unforgettable birthdae surprise for me and i appreciate all your efforts.
Down to another incident... The suspected H1N1 incident... I'm very upset that on the minds of everyone its not the safety or health of the suspected person on their minds... I got told that I might want to consider going home because I might infect them and in turn infect their families and the people around them... I'm sorry I dun mean to be a carrier.. I just happened to unknowingly say hi to someone who's family member just got tested positive. I wish to clarify that this person just received the news that her family member was just diagnosed as positive and it was not her fault. Moreover she herself was not yet proven positive...All the same, I promise to keep my distance and not spread any of my vile germs be it H1N1 or ani others to anyone. If i have inevitably passed any of my vile germs... I m sorry.
4:08 AM
Indecisive...
Down to another incident... The suspected H1N1 incident... I'm very upset that on the minds of everyone its not the safety or health of the suspected person on their minds... I got told that I might want to consider going home because I might infect them and in turn infect their families and the people around them... I'm sorry I dun mean to be a carrier.. I just happened to unknowingly say hi to someone who's family member just got tested positive. I wish to clarify that this person just received the news that her family member was just diagnosed as positive and it was not her fault. Moreover she herself was not yet proven positive...All the same, I promise to keep my distance and not spread any of my vile germs be it H1N1 or ani others to anyone. If i have inevitably passed any of my vile germs... I m sorry.
4:08 AM
Indecisive...
